Hey Love,

I know your mind isn’t quiet right now. It’s full of questions you don’t really want answers to, thoughts you know aren’t helpful anymore, and possibilities you’ve already accepted won’t come to life. And still, they sit there. I know you’re trying to stay quiet, to find a sense of stillness, but your mind won’t let you settle. Your mind keeps dragging you back to the things you can’t change. You’re trying to fix it in your head, rewrite it in your dreams—but it’s exhausting.

You just want to let it go. You want the questions to stop. You want the silence to feel peaceful, not heavy. You want to sit with yourself and not feel like you’re running from anything. You want to feel calm, steady, and okay again. You want to breathe without overthinking every breath. You want to feel okay again.

This is one of those moments where questions and quietness collide. You’re surrounded by silence, but inside, it’s loud—restless with thoughts, doubts, and what-ifs. It feels like your head is asking for answers, your heart isn’t ready to explore. And instead of comfort, the quiet feels more like pressure. You want peace, but it feels just out of reach.

So let me remind you of something simple, but important:
You don’t have to hold everything so tightly. Let go of the need to control. Loosen your grip. You’ve always been strong, always taken things head-on. But maybe now, it’s time to do things differently. Maybe now it’s about facing what’s coming up—but doing it gently.  Stop trying to fix, explain, or force it to make sense. Face your thoughts, yes—but do it gently. Do it with calm and care. That’s when things begin to shift.

I know you’re used to holding it all together. You’ve always faced challenges head-on, pushed through with strength. But maybe this time calls for something different. Maybe this is the moment to approach your thoughts not with resistance, but with calm. With patience. With care. You don’t have to fight every thought. You don’t have to resist every feeling. Let them come, notice them, and then let them move on. You don’t have to hold onto every single one.

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This is where softness matters. You can trust your heart without pushing so hard.
You can be calm and still be strong. You can be gentle and still be brave. It’s okay to stop being so hard on yourself.  It’s okay to stop trying so hard. Sometimes, strength looks like softness.

I know your heart feels heavy right now. You’re caught in between—trying to choose love over pain,  navigating between love and hurt, trying to stay positive even when your mind keeps circling back to what hurt. You’re doing everything you can to stay calm and stay away from what’s been weighing you down. And you’re doing your best. You’re trying to keep your distance, trying to stay grounded, but some days it feels like too much. I get it.

But here’s the thing—you’re not meant to avoid the darkness, healing isn’t about skipping the hard parts. You’re meant to walk through it. That’s the only way the light on the other side will feel real. Trust your heart. Let yourself move toward peace—even if it feels unfamiliar. You don’t always have to meet pain with intensity. Sometimes your quiet, steady energy is exactly what’s needed.

And even though it’s hard, I need you to keep walking. One step at a time. With trust. With patience. You have to walk through the dark to reach the light. And you can. You’re not alone in this. I’m with you. I’m walking beside you, even if you can’t see me. I’m your guide—your reminder that you are never truly alone. I can’t take the steps for you, but I can walk with you through every single one. You just have to keep moving, with trust in your heart and patience in your process.

You don’t have to do it perfectly. You just have to keep showing up for yourself. Eventually, you’ll notice the change. The pain will ease. And I promise, you will reach a point where the pain doesn’t hit the same way. The memories won’t feel sharp anymore. They’ll settle. They’ll soften. You’ll come across something that reminds you of what once was,  what we shared, and instead of breaking, you’ll pause. You’ll smile. You’ll feel peace. You’ll feel proud of how far you’ve come.

Keep choosing love. Keep choosing softness. You don’t have to fight this. You just have to meet it with honesty, and let go—bit by bit.

And when that moment comes, I’ll still be right there—
leaving signs, guiding quietly, and reminding you,
you made it. You healed.
Now that you’re happy, I am too.

With all my love,
Your Sunshine.

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