To all who Love Without Expectations – #AtoZChallenge #BlogchatterA2Z


Love is always bestowed as a gift – freely, willingly and without expectation. We don’t love to be loved; we love to love.- Leo Buscaglia

Dear Sunshine,?

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Never be afraid of change. You’re the brave soul who Loves without expectations. You’re the one who tries to Brighten the world with all you have. Dear brave soul, remember, It’s not easy to love without expectations and you’re mastering that art. Keep growing.

I always wanted to say this to my children, and I will say this now, Be there for everyone even if they don’t like you or you don’t like them. Stand there like firm support.

Master the art of Giving. You’ll be filled with happiness and that will matter to you rather than praises. Something that I have always heard from my parents. Dear sunshine, Pat on your back because you know to respect even the smallest things, you know to value the emotions.



It’s okay if you’re not loved back, remember there’s more power when you make feel someone special. Remember the time when you gave up your chocolates for friends? to giving more time to make your friend understand during the exams?

You love without expectations, because you feel happy, not because you’re lonely. Sunshine, Remember to love yourself too. Remember to Love yourself so much that you don’t need anyone to love you. Don’t expect anyone to love you the same way you love them. But Sunshine, Put yourself first while being there for others. You too deserve the happiness.

Remember the time when you have the last and small piece of cake? or the time you have helped someone. Dear sunshine, the world needs people like you. Fill the world with the energy of love that you give and see the magic.

Love yourself with the same dedication you work so hard to give to others. Don’t worry about what other’s think. You’re on the right path if your heart feels it right. You’re on the right path if you love what you’re doing.

Dear sunshine. you’re doing it right, you’re shining bright!
–Love ??

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I wanted to stop here but then wanted to share how i understood the meaning of Love without expectations. When I understood it’s meaning, and henceforth I implied it.

It was the time I was traveling with my elder brother when someone asked him what do you think about love. What is love for you? That’s when he said, Love is something without expectations, something that you can’t stop doing, but you can’t expect the same in return. Love is when other’s smile because of you. Love is when at the end of the day, we just have happy moments to remember. Love is- something without expectations.

This Post Has 47 Comments

  1. Suhasini

    Another beautiful letter..I like the fact Never Afraid for Change has been reiterated

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

  2. Vartika

    Very delightful read

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

  3. Abhijit

    Another beautiful letter. No small person can be good to others even when they are disliked.

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youu sir

  4. Deepika

    I agree with the fact “Never be afraid of Change.” selflessness is the asset, no matter how others are thinking about you.”If you can do good for them just do it” is a rare lesson which is reached by a few. I like the approach of positivity in your letter. Loved it.

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

  5. Aditi Kapur

    It’s very difficult to love without expectations, an extra effort has to be done in mastering this art. Lovely post ?

    1. vidhya thakkar

      So true!!!

  6. Bonnie Anderson

    What a special elder brother you have! Nice post.

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank you

  7. Mahesh Sowani

    Wonderful. Loved the idea of letters.

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

  8. Rashi Roy

    Beautifully written ?

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

  9. Deepa

    Very motivational read. Love yourself and no one else will love you the same way is my favourite.

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

  10. Siva

    Deep and bold usage yet simple by words

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

  11. Sonia Chatterjee

    Never be afraid of the change. Another beautiful and heartfelt letter.

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

  12. Noor Anand Chawla

    Love the sentiment you have expressed here! Love in its truest form is unconditional and without expectations 🙂

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

  13. Sanjota Purohit

    Amazingly written! Loved it 🙂

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

  14. Priyanka Nair

    Another beautiful letter!!

  15. Shalini

    What a beautiful letter that is! I could resonate so much to it.

  16. Neha Sharma

    Love is very powerful when done without any expectations. Great post!

  17. Arti

    You have talked about a lot of beautiful things, nice read

  18. vidya

    while i enjoyed the letter – a beautiful read, my favorite part was the how you understood it.

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank Youuu

  19. Fran

    VIDHYA, This was beautifully stated. My first experience of conscious unconditional love was with a reptile – As a pet lover, it was my first experience giving and knowing it would never be reciprocated.
    Many years later I am still evolving into a more loving human being. I always felt I was, but the levels are infinite and now I find myself as you said, thinking loving thoughts about those who don’t love me or that I was formerly angry with.

    If only we could bottle this.. Because until it is felt, it isn’t attractive.

    Thank you again.

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thankk youuu

  20. Martha

    What a beautiful letter!

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

  21. Ujjwal mishra

    Being in love is an amazing feeling and getting it reciprocated is a blessing. Your letters are striking the right chords. Beautiful.

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thankk youuu

  22. Carol

    A lovely post…Love the idea of a letter…Nicely told 🙂

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

  23. jhilmil

    What a beautiful letter, indeed love leaves one with lovely memories

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

  24. Siddhi

    Lovely post. You penned it well.

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

  25. Sudip Saha

    Not only love… But we should perform all our duties without expectations. In Shrimad Bhagavad Gita, the Lord tells us to perform our duties without expectations and change is the only thing which is constant…otgers are transitory.

  26. Random Musings

    I think showing kindness is important, but I think it’s also important to set boundaries and not be taken advantage of.
    Debbie

    1. vidhya thakkar

      yes

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