To my future Husband, here’s a Letter for you #Blogchattera2z #atozchallenge

Decisions determines Destiny

Dear Future Husband,

Take it as a warning!

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Love me with caution. Love me with all the love and I’ll be there with open arms for you.

I am waiting. I am waiting to experience and enter the new phase of life. Remember I am not prepared, I am not prepared to leave my parents home, to leave my old habits, to leave everything and come with you. But, I am ready to explore the new phase of love.

Be ready to handle this chaotic girl with lots of energy. She’ll be there smiling while she’s totally broken. Just read her eyes, just hold her hand, and Be There.

Get ready for a roller coaster ride for life because we are going to handle the up’s and down’s of life, TOGETHER.

To the man who will be loving me, It might be hard for me to trust when it comes to love. I have been broken, I have been shattered, I have been weak when it comes to love. Make me believe in Love again, with your Love.
It might be hard but I am worth the fight.

Please understand. I want you to give me my time. I want you to equally respect me, my decision. Just be there with me when I need you. That’s the best I want you to do.

Dear husband, I may be wrong, I may be hard to handle. Just stay calm and make me understand. Just stay there with love.

I look for equality in our relationship.

I look for equal opportunities and equal love. I want you to respect me when I speak up for something. I want you to support me equally when I make a decision. Be it staying away from you for work, or giving work more importance.

Remember it’s our home and alone not mine, we are equally responsible for making it our sweet home. I want you yo equally participate in doing daily chores, I want you to equally take part in raising our children.

Husband, I want everything to be done equally. Be it work or fun.

We may have different choices, we may be complete opposites, be ready to adjust, experience new things. I want you to respect my choices, my opinions.

Remember, I don’t want lavish gifts, all I want is you. You to be there for me. You to be there when I need you the most. You to be there in my memories when I am away. You to be there when I am super happy.

Remember, I am the one who won’t ask too many times, I am the one to let go. Whenever you feel, I am letting go off of things and moments, feel free to correct me, feel free to get angry on me, because that’s what I want, your warmth, your love.

It’s our decisions that will decide the destiny. I promise, not to give up on you, on our decision. NOt to let you go, to be there with all the love. Dear Husband, I want you to handle the worst of me, to the best of me.

I Promise, we will never fail in this journey, we’ll just grow together, learning and Loving :)


This Post Has 41 Comments

  1. Dr.Amrita

    Best wishes Vidhya to the next phase of your life.Sometimes life’s choices change everything.Great post.

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

  2. Rashi Roy

    Very well written. Beautiful one.

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

  3. Aditi Kapur

    Lovely ? May God bless you with a loving, understanding husband!;)

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

  4. Sanjota

    Very beautiful! You will get an amazing one ;)

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu ?

      1. Ujjwal mishra

        It is so poetic. I loved the flow. Lots of expectation, may all of it comes true.

        1. vidhya thakkar

          Thank youu

  5. Priyanka Nair

    Aha! That’s a pretty cute letter to your would be husband, hope he reads it when you find him and understands what you are looking in a partner :)

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Hahaha thank you ???

  6. Trapti

    I can’t tell you how much I like this article?

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu ???

  7. Eydie

    Heartfelt letter. I to am looking for the love of my life. Been married twice and had one fiancé. One husband and the fiancé passed away. With that said, I’m ready for love again. Good luck in your search. Eydie :)

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youu

  8. Martha

    This is so beautifully written and from the heart!

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youu

  9. kushal

    That’s a beautiful post… written honestly… Loved reading it Viidhya

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youu

  10. Darshana Sarmah

    Haha..what a lovely adorable letter. Sure, your would be husband will fall flat for you.

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Hahahaha thank youuu

      1. Srishti

        Haha, nice one! Hope you find exactly the same:)

        1. vidhya thakkar

          Hehe thank youuu

  11. Suhasini

    Pretty mushy letter to your husband but capturing all your realistic expectations of him. The best line I liked is again the last line “We’ll just grow together loving and learning” It has so much depth in it

    1. vidhya thakkar

      hehe thank youuu

  12. Daniel

    Awwww. This really touched me. You painted the words with love. Nice one

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thankk youuu

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youu

  13. Gurjeet Chhabra

    I think every girl want her future hubby to be like this. completely understand, help in house core too

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  14. Shilpa Garg

    Amen to that!! May all that you wish for in a husband, come true for you, Vidhya!!

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thankk youu

  15. T.S. Valmond

    Oh, the title had me thinking of the song, but it turned into a great letter. I love a good love letter. I can’t wait to see what other letters you come up with during A-Z. – Dragons & Spaceships

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

  16. Sudip Saha

    Wish you all the very best. Hope you find your someone special very soon.

    1. vidhya thakkar

      hehe thank youu

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