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It is too much to expect a lil or is it OK to know the reason for disappointment? That’s how we human beings are, craves for all that we have, that unconditional love isn’t it?

It’s another day I felt maybe, disappointed or I just let it go as another day. Aren’t we all like this? We expect a lil while we know that is not going to happen.

Let that moment surprise you rather than expecting. But the dear heart doesn’t understand to love with expectations. At the end of the day, when I think about that disappointment, I smile, I smile because I controlled my thoughts, I did not let the person know, I was disappointed, rather greeted with a smile, and a hope… maybe one day, that disappointment may disappear and there’s a surprise.

Once again, I tell my dear heart, to love without expectations, tough it has that lil hope, but then, that’s what we all live on?.

A lil hope, a lil love, lil expectations and disappointments.

Also Read: 5 happiness hacks in this New normal routine.

Well, when it comes to disappointments, there are times when we unknowingly disappoint someone, while the times when someone knows, but can’t help and disappoint us. But dear heart, smile, and ask for forgiveness, to the one whom you disappointed, be it with your words or actions.

Don’t let them feel the pain, you felt, let’s not create a story of disappointment in their minds, that happens with us.

You know, the best part is, when we are thinking about the disappointment and the person who disappointed us, unknowingly try to blend it with their love and there is that Lil smile of happiness, that smile of acceptance is priceless, isn’t it? That very time, when something that we didn’t expect happens, that unexpected smile on our face is priceless.

Dear heart, it’s ok to wait a lil bit, to expect a lil less, be it a small gesture or some actions. Also, dear heart, mend the one whom you hurt, bring that unexpected smile on their faces too.

This Post Has 8 Comments

  1. Glenda Cates

    I am trying so hard to not let what has happened in the world get me down but its getting harder and harder when I see my son upset all the time. But it’s one foot in front of the other as I know its going to end and we will get back to our normal lives soon I hope.

    1. Vidhya Thakkar


  2. Roy A Ackerman, PhD, EA

    Disappointments are a normal part of life.

    1. Vidhya Thakkar


  3. Jeanine Byers

    I agree with Roy, that disappointments are a normal part of life. But I also think it’s okay to feel hurt or sad or frustrated when something or someone disappoints us. And I agree that it is good to let others know hen we are feeling hurt, and good to listen when someone comes to us. Love on both sides can help mend it.

    1. Vidhya Thakkar


  4. Martha

    My grandson has gone through major disappointments and stumbles. But he’s always get back up and started down the road and never looked back. He calls them leaning experiences and at 22 years old I am so proud of how he has found the road to success.

    1. Vidhya Thakkar


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