Dear Sunshine,
Learn to love the chaos. Learn to value it.
There will be so much going on in your mind, so much happening around you—it will all feel overwhelming at times, even messy at times. But Sunshine, that chaos holds lessons. It holds the very clarity you’re searching for. Amidst all that noise and confusion, there are lessons waiting to be uncovered. They will help you understand what you truly want and guide you toward where you’re meant to go. Let it guide you toward discovering what you truly want and where your heart longs to go.
In this life, Sunshine, learn to value everything—every person, every moment, every blessing. Never take anything for granted. Never disrespect what you’ve been given. Learn to treasure every single thing. There are so many people out there who dream of having what you have. And if they ever got it, they’d hold on to it forever, because they know what it means to truly value something. They understand the value of what they receive.
Remember this: the things you cherish, the people you help, the ones you respect—these are the ones who will be there when you need them the most, when life tests you the most. These are the things that will make your life easier and more meaningful.
There will come a time when you might feel unseen, unappreciated, maybe even unloved. In those moments, I want you to remember this: value yourself first. Respect yourself. Love yourself deeply. Because only when you do, will others learn to do the same.
This is the most important lesson I want to pass on to you — to never forget your own worth. Love yourself so deeply that no moment of neglect, no absence of applause, can ever make you feel less. Love yourself so much that you never have to seek it in places that don’t deserve you. I made the mistake of putting self-care and self-love at the very bottom of my list. I paid the price for it. I don’t want that for you. That’s why I’m telling you now: Love yourself first. Always.
Also, never shy away from expressing what you feel, never silence your feelings.. Let the chaos in your heart speak—your thoughts, your experiences, your perspective. That’s how you will grow. That’s how you will understand your emotions better. That’s how you will love more deeply and value more clearly. That’s how you’ll heal and truly live.
This world, Sunshine, is a blend of light and shadow—positivity and negativity. But you? You’re planted here to shine. Take the darkness around you and turn it into light. Transform your surroundings into something beautiful. But to do that, you must start within—with love, with respect, with value for yourself.
And lastly, Sunshine, learn to trust the timing of your life. The timing knows. It always does :)
With all my heart,
–Love
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Absolutely right. Learn to value before it’s too late.
Another inspirational post with full of positivity!
Great letter to Sunshine.
Keep growing and keep loving yourself Sunshine!
Very correct. There is no way to command respect from others if we do not have a liking and respect for our own selves.
Beautiful Vidhya! We really must value ourselves in order for the world to start valuing us.
Clarity in chaos is such an unique thought. Loved this piece.
You always come out with profound message through these posts written as a letter. Yes there will be chaos around us, because we don’t control the world. We control ourselves. How we deal with chaos is important. Chaos is important. Because only by churning of the ocean, nectar of life was unearthed. It is important to accept oneself and love self. Because only those who are comfortable with self, can love others.
some very profound and heart felt words Vidyha born of painfully earned wisdom
Pain and chaos are all stepping stones too.
I wish all kids were taught to value what they got..another good one from you Vidhya.
Deep meaningful words ❤️ Value yourself:)
Time is one thing that never stops for anyone, so we have to pit it to good use till we have some left in hand. Great message.
Very inspiring one Vidhya :)
Oh, I love that! – “to love yourself so much that you never feel unloved.”
Absolutely correct, we should value and respect ourselves.
Great…you write so beautifully…every post touches the heart!
Good one Vidhya.
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Really good message. Wonderful post.
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A perfect message! I especially like the ending “Grow from all the negativity and making surrounding positive and bright.” My grandson had a rough time, moving from foster home to foster home and was basically on his own from 15 years old. He is now 20 and I’m so proud of who he has become. He followed what you said and learned from the negativity and now his life is blessed with positivity an hope.
Another great letter to sunshine, love yourself and don’t be afraid of chaos in mind.
Beautiful post, loved it totally
Another beautiful post . I like the sentence grow from all the negativity
Yes learn to value yourself !!