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The Opposites, You’re perfect – #Blogchattera2z #AtoZchallenge

Dear Sunshine,

Have you ever imagined being with someone completely different from you? Someone whose choices, tastes, or opinions don’t always match yours? It might feel challenging at first—maybe even frustrating. But it could also be something you end up enjoying. The experience you have will depend on how open you are to it.

Sunshine, make sure you accept love when it comes your way. Don’t close yourself off from the love you truly deserve. It’s easy to think that love needs to be perfect—but the truth is, nothing is perfect, and no one is either. There’s something uniquely beautiful about the imperfect.

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Sometimes, opposites come together in the most meaningful ways. They argue, they compromise, they learn, and they grow. That’s what makes the connection strong. Remember, every beautiful thing is never perfect and that’s what makes it real. You’re going to learn a lot from people who are different from you. You’ll learn how to accept that not everyone thinks the same way, and that’s okay. Respecting differences is part of building deeper relationships.

There’s value in seeing the world through someone else’s eyes. Different perspectives can open you up to new experiences, new ways of thinking, and a broader understanding of life. There’s nothing wrong with stepping outside your comfort zone—it can actually be one of the best things for your growth.

No relationship runs smoothly without effort. Nobody brings perfection into your life—you build connection, understanding, and love through communication and effort. It’s you who has to nurture the relationship, to find balance, and to make space for love to grow.

Think of every relationship like a jigsaw puzzle. The pieces may not look like they fit at first, but with time, patience, and care, they come together to form something beautiful. As you grow, Sunshine, you’ll find that being with someone different doesn’t mean you’re wrong for each other. It might just mean you’re helping each other grow in ways you wouldn’t on your own.

To the opposites—you’re perfect together.

–Love

This Post Has 35 Comments

  1. Vartika

    I and my husband are poles apart in many things and I can relate to your post so much. Beautiful.

    1. Mann

      Opposites are too much work but fun. Nice post ?

  2. Deepika

    Wow! It’s a wonderful read. You write every post with so honesty. Accept the opposites as they are you will get a new charm.

  3. Srishti

    You have to work hard make a relationship work. Nice thoughts, loved the post, short & sweet:)

  4. Dee Coxon MA MD MCMI

    Food for thought Vidhya…… my husband and I are complete opposites in terms of personality and yet we fir together like “hand in glove” Thank you for sharing :-)

  5. Abhijit

    Another beautiful and motivating letter. Great!

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thankk Youuu

  6. Aditi Kapur

    Lovely read! You are motivating with your short, crisp write-ups:)

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thankkk youu

  7. Sonia Chatterjee

    Sunshine, you will someday feel there’s a different charm in agreeing to disagree. I speak from experience.

    1. vidhya thakkar

      hehe yess that’s true!

  8. Noor Anand Chawla

    You’re so right Vidhya, opposites are two halves of a whole. Beautifully expressed!

    1. vidhya thakkar

      hheehe yess! thank youu

  9. Shubhra Rastogi

    Lovely that every relationship is like a jigsaw puzzle. Very beautifully written. And yes opposites do attract.

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thank youuu

  10. Dipika

    Opposites attract and they have the most amazing chemistry in life. Lovely post.

  11. Jeanine Byers

    Blend the relationship with love and manage the bond. Expect differences and love anyway. As a mother, I am encouraged by your words. It’s a good reminder of our job as moms.

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Hehe thank youuu

  12. Sanjota Purohit

    To understand life better mingle with people who are not from your state/country, people who don’t know your language and travel to unknown places.

    1. vidhya thakkar

      So truee

  13. John Rieber

    I just celebrated my twenty year anniversary, and considering most people can’t take me for a day, my wife has shown amazing patience and grace under pressure!

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Hahaha happy anniversary

    2. Trapti

      I like the sentence, Beautiful thing is never perfect.

  14. Harjeet Kaur

    My husband and I were poles apart and yet ours was a perfect marriage. Tell Sunshine that opposites only attract :)

  15. kushal

    Loved the ending… To the opposites, you are perfect together. Sums it all up so beautifully

  16. anupriya

    The irony of the situation is that we often start liking soemone thinking they complement us best. But later end up getting irritating by the dissimilarities. We ought to learn and cherish the difference for always.

  17. Dr.Amrita

    A lovely letter.Opposites do attract but some similarities are needed too

  18. Manas Mukul

    Wonderful post. I could relate to so much since i try to understand relationships.
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  19. Shilpa Garg

    Well said, relationships are like jig-saw puzzles, they take a while to figure out, but once you do that, the final picture is amazing. May your Sunshine finds happiness in her relationships!

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Thats truee

  20. Rashmi

    Opposites make a perfect blend! Life would be monotonous if there are same people like us everywhere. Lovely letter!

    1. vidhya thakkar

      Yess so truee! Thank youuu

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