He usually plans for
the destiny ,She believes in dwelling moments,
They both knew what they desired. wanted.
He the present, She the Future.
Opposites attract! Oh, that’s how it is written. It’s the law of nature. They form an adorable couple. These are some things that I have heard about love. when we talk about love and opposites.
Well, it’s said, every pair is wonderful, it’s how to keep the sparkle of love alive matters, isn’t it? Imagine what happens when fire meets kerosene? That’s how we are, similar in anger but opposites for life.
The Capricorn and the Gemini. One like movies, other likes book. One likes to devise in advance at the same time as any other one is an impulsive planner. One is prepared, whilst another one like to be messy. One wants to listen and the other likes to talk. One loves to express whilst the opposite one wants to listen to the whole lot cautiously.
One is a foodie, other isn’t a foodie. one love bikes, other loves car. Well, that’s how WE are!. Things in common are None. what binds us together is simply Love. Well, another thing that binds us together is Anger and fight. It happens to be a world war.
Wonder how these opposite personalities are together? Well, it’s the One rule that we follow. We made it the day we were in a relationship. Which helps us to carry forward this relationship with Love. and sometimes saves Us too.
The Rule that we made is ‘ Do not carry forward the fight the next day. End it at the end of the day. Next day is the new sunshine, a new start’. And if you sleep early without clarification the fight gets over! :P Well, this is the thing that binds this contrary couple.
No matter how much we fight, the anger we have, we know at the end, we’re going to be there for each other, again arguing and having fun!
AND do you meet your partner for 5 mins a day? and only half an hour of call? Well, we do! our busy work schedules keep us away from each other. But without any complaints, we try to end our day together by meeting for a few minutes.
Don’t know if you find it boring or fancy, but that’s the sparkle of our relationship. Never fail to express yourself. Be it anger, frustration or Love, EXPRESS.
Do you believe in having rules for your relationship? what form of rule you will have?
Also Read: SHE’S WORDS & HE, HER SENTENCES.
“This post is a part of the Valentine’s Day blog train hosted by www.prernawahi.com & www.vartikasdiary.com, sponsored by ShilpSa, Kalpavriksha farms & Neha from @bloggingmadeeasier ”
Prompt-Opposites attract, great minds think alike – what type of couple are you?
Just so beautiful. God bless you two.
Thank youuu love
God bless you dear.. lovely
Sometimes, opposite piles compliment each other in relation.
For us not leaving any discussion open ended and waking up with the same thoughts in mind is a total No-No. We clear it out and if by any chance one of us is not in a mood to halve a talk then we convey it clearly and take care of it as the first thing the next morning.
#Vdayblogtrain
Agreee!
It’s easy to say opposites attract..and this sort of attraction can create rifts if they are not made to work…I liked ur strategies that u use in ur relationship to keep the bond of love strong…well written.
hehe thank you!! agree its difficult when the opposites like us meets. but than a lil bit of adjustment works for us
Yes we followed this rule of not carrying the fight to next day for sometime, and as per my husband life got boring. He said he couldn’t wait for the end of day to finish the fight. It needs to be done in one discussion session straight :p
Really heart touchy story.Opposites do attracts..loved your rules.
When two opposites attract each other and comes together as a couple,the combination rocks,if they just understand each other and be there for each other.
Simple and no frills article that tugs at the heart:)
Stay blessed dear
I must say nice feeling vidya. It is not mandatory to be a same in relationship.. Thw matter is how you both manage the difference between you..
Keep enjoying
I can very well relate to your rule Vidya. We too follow the same. All arguments die by the end of the day or next day.
Simply beautiful. Stay fine and stay together, all that I can wish.
Simply beautiful. Stay fine and together, all that I can wish.
Heyy so prettily written, in relationships I’ve always believed tat opposites, yes opposites do attract n in a most pleasant way… N I liked ur thing of not carrying forward yest’s glitches…?
Thought provoking post. Made me think.
Never carrying any fight to the next day is an important thing for couples to learn. However, I do differ about spending time together. We time is necessary in a relationship too.
Looks like the story of my life…and some great advise here…great post
Never let the sun set on an argument, that’s a wise rule to stick to. Kudos to you for living up to it.
So true Vidhya. I strongly believe in the same theory, “never go to bed fighting.” It should be resolved before you sleep. Great blog post.
Life becomes interesting when one discovers a new perception in partner. I am living with someone who is just opposite to me, difference in opinion can be resolved. But one felling cold and other one hot at same time, this one is still unresolved since years.. Enjoyed reading this post
I agree with you completely and in fact, I had written my post on the same thought. great write up, keep it up! #Vdayblogtrain
Hey Vidhya, enjoyed reading your post! yes, opposites attract but as the relationship progresses, both the partners move a few steps towards each other and the journey becomes pleasurable.
I so agree with you, Vidhya, fights are not assets or liabilities that should be carried over to the next day. Finish them there and then. Raat gayi, baat gayi. :)
truee
I liked your principle of never fail to express, be it anger, love or frustration. and this principle really helps to have a healthy relationship.
Thank you
Simple, lovely, engaging blog. Marriage is all about communication and taking efforts to understand each other. No need to hold grudges or sleep without making up!
Thank youu
How beautifully penned. Yes i do believe opposites attract. Thats whatbgives sparkle to a marriage :)
Loved it.
Yes opposites attract. Kudos to you for maintaining sanity even after spending so less time with each other. Power couple. God bless you guys
Opposites do attract… that’s the rule of Nature.. ??but the method of expressing that attraction depends on the individuals. .. your article I enjoyed a lot… simple words and a few strategies… may the bond of togetherness continue till eternity☺☺
Opposites can attract and also create issues in multiple instances due to a difference of opinion. The saviours are the heart to heart conversation where you speak out everything
yeess!
I agree that opposites attract and also believe that both the individuals should be given equal space and both should respect each others thoughts…that’s how life could be smooth sailing.
Well composed !
Cheers
MeenalSonal
Look like my story it is, we both believe to carry the fight to the next day
Very nice writeup. I laughed when I read the bit about Capricorn and Gemini being different. I know exactly what you mean! :D
hahahaha
Well written post and seems like many of us have married our opposites! Enjoyed it.
No, I don’t believe in having rules in a relationship though sometimes some kind of adjustments do matter from both sides. But when we start making rules for every other thing, the spark of relationship fades away.
true
Opposites life is spicy…God bless Duo.
Opposites life is spicy…enjoy the ride…god bless
Enjoyed the post. Same is the case with us, opposites do attract! :)
Awww lovely.. bless you both .. and many wishes that you keep bonding over
No there shouldn’t be any rules for a relationship. I love how you pointed out making 5 minutes a day to meet each other. No matter even if its short, its still considered as a healthy relationship as long as both are happy!! Loved your writeup!!
agree! Thank youu
i so agree to all this. its crucial that couples spend time with each other. even if its just 5 minutes a day. #blogtrain #vday