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To the one who left – #Blogchattera2z #atozchallenge

Dear Sunshine,

I want to share something with you today about the ones who left me.

To the one who left me: I thought I would be loved the way I loved you, but instead, I was left feeling unloved and carrying emotional scars. I was left with so many unanswered questions, and I found myself questioning what love truly means. But now, I’m ready to move forward.

It wasn’t easy, and it still hurts, but I’ve decided to start over. I’m choosing to build a new life full of love and peace. I don’t hold any grudges, and I don’t hate you. Maybe things happened for a reason, or maybe it just wasn’t meant to be. But there’s something important I want to share with you:

Never make decisions in a rush. And never get involved with someone unless you’re truly ready to commit. What may feel like a casual relationship to one person can mean something completely different to the other. Don’t trust too easily, like I did. It can lead to heartbreak. We had many memories together, but now, they’re just memories. They no longer make me happy or sad. Instead, they’ve taught me important lessons—like the importance of loving myself first and respecting others, but with caution. These lessons have made me stronger and better.

And this is what I want to say to you, Sunshine: It’s time to begin again.

Sunshine, think about the people who made you laugh until you cried. The ones you thought you’d share everything with. The ones who left you with questions and never truly loved you the way you deserved. Sunshine, it’s time to begin again. Take that first step forward. Show them that you are better off without them. Show them that you’re happier now. Let go of the past and grow stronger. Remember to spread love because you know what it feels like to be unloved. But also, make sure you protect your heart.

Sunshine, don’t hold onto grudges. There’s a reason things happened the way they did. It wasn’t about you—it was about what you needed to learn from the experience. Most importantly, trust yourself. You’re the one who has to handle your own healing. You’re the one who will rise above this. Don’t regret how things ended. Learn from it, and move on. Keep growing, and handle situations with a positive mindset. That’s how you’ll shine. Sunshine, love with care, but never stop loving.  When you’re with the right person, love becomes a beautiful thing.

So now, I need you to do something for me: Take that first step forward. Don’t feel like you need to prove anything to anyone. Just focus on becoming a better version of yourself. Let go of the things that hurt you. Learn from them. Grow. Keep loving, but protect your heart. You know what it’s like to feel unloved, so you’ll value love in a new way. But always remember to love yourself too. Let go of any resentment. Learn from the situation, and move forward.

You’re stronger than you think. And now, it’s your time to shine.

–Love

Also Read: SUNSHINE, BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOU – #BLOGCHATTERA2Z #ATOZCHALLENGE

This Post Has 25 Comments

  1. Vinay Nagaraju

    Nice one Vidya, it feels like reading a poetry. An inspiring post, every great achievement starts from a single step for even a great creation was just a blue print some day!

    1. vidhya thakkar

      yess! thnkk youu

    1. Srishti

      Such a lovely and motivational post! I dare to begin. Thanks for sharing ?

  2. Meena

    The first step to begin again is a tough one to take. But, once that courage is found, then growth as a human is certain. Human mind is very powerful. It can be both binding and liberating at the same time. Great post

  3. Jyotirmoy Sarkar

    Can relate with this post very deeply, a new beginning must be there, very much motivating write up.

  4. Abhijit

    Another beautiful and motivating letter. Always so fluid, so easy to read and so motivating.

  5. Mann

    Every one who has loved and is not loved back can relate with it Vidhya. The whole learning is to gather yourself and move on.

  6. Rashmi

    Those who left you were never meant to stay with you and never deserve you. They have come in your life to teach you a life lesson. Accept the lesson as a gift and move ahead. Heart touching letter!

  7. kushal

    Nice one Vidhya…The first step is always the hardest… Dare to Begin…

  8. Sonia Chatterjee

    To the one who left, thank you for teaching me my inner strength. I dared to begin and there’s been no looking back. Beautiful.

  9. ujjwal mishra

    amazing, your style and theme both are heart touching

  10. Roma

    Another beauty post from your pen buddy. Such an apt lesson

  11. Jeanine Byers

    So true! Daring to begin again is the first step, and an important one. Because heartbreak can stop you in your tracks.

  12. Priyanka Nair

    Beautiful Vidhya, Some ending leads to beautiful beginnings.

  13. Sanjota Purohit

    As always amazing! Life is all about us, no one will come to help. We have to stand on our own.

  14. Shubhra Rastogi

    starting all over again needs a lot of courage. I am also going to do it. Thanks for sharing, lovely post

  15. Harjeet Kaur

    Lovely post-Vidya..dare to begin! Love is a beautiful feeling.

  16. Noor Anand Chawla

    Loved the post Vidhya, especially that beautiful last line!

  17. Martha

    I’m loving all your posts!!

  18. Roopali

    Awesome post.. but sometimes it is really tough to let it go and begin again.

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